I was blog surfing....
and read this>>> "no one enters my house without a meal being offered." That's very generous of her. Me? I barely offer coffee. And if they accept, they have to make their own. I'm not totally ungracious, I'll get out the cups, the coffee, (instant only in my home), even put the kettle on, but they make their own coffee once that kettle boils. Why? So they get it the way they like it. They can't complain about too much sugar or not enough milk if they've made it themselves. Too weak? Not my fault. Too strong? You made it.... Also my other reason, this is not a cafe and I'm no waitress. BYO cake. I had some, but I ate it.....