As you'll all notice I've switched to a pop-up comment window.
Apparently pop-up comment windows are the ones that people are able to leave comments on, not the embedded below post ones.
Since I love my comments, I've made the switch.
It's dead easy.
Go to your dashboard page, select settings, from the tool bar across the top (in your settings seection) choose comments, then scroll down to where it has the selection for the type of comments box you want. Click the little circle that says pop-up box, scroll down to "save settings" and wait while it makes the change.
Then you're finished and your blog will now have a pop-up comment box.